It would be difficult to overstate the impact Athena Montessori had on our son Leif, on our family, and on our community. When I first heard about "grace and courtesy," it sounded like a lovely thing to teach, but I had no idea how far the effects would reach into the rest of his life. Roughly twenty years later, people meet our son as someone unusually composed, empathetic, and thoughtful beyond his years. From those earliest days, he was also a self-starter who took genuine ownership of his own learning, and that habit has stayed with him ever since.
What moves me now, looking back, is how little the school seemed to be teaching achievement and how much it was simply teaching him who to be. The achievements came anyway, and they came on their own steam. The same thoughtfulness that began with grace and courtesy is what later put him on a TEDx stage. The same self-direction he practiced as a small child, choosing his own work, is what led him to start his own company and to be named a Fulbright alternate, because following his curiosity and taking responsibility had quietly become who he is.
I credit the entire Athena staff and community. Grace and courtesy were never a slogan; they were lived every day by teachers who treated very young children as capable humans worthy of real respect, and children grow towards that. Independence was woven into the environment, one small responsibility at a time. Whatever Leif has gone on to do, the foundation was laid in those rooms by people who understood that how a child learns to move through the world matters more than any single thing they memorize.
If you are a parent weighing this decision, I would say simply that the Montessori promise is real and that Athena delivers with passion. Composure, empathy, and ownership of one's own path are gifts that last a lifetime. Twenty years on, we are deeply grateful, and we always will be, that this is where our son began.
- Joel Rasmussen, parent of May 2010 graduate